I always said that I was going to, not only talk about my life, but other stuff as well. Today, I want to talk about the TV series "House". The beginning was very interesting. Starting out doing time made me look at the character in a different light. I'm glad he knew how to take care of himself.
The removal of the character, Lisa Cuddy was uncalled for. There is a rumor that the producers of the show asked her to take a pay cut. She refused so they dropped her from the roster, so to speak. I wouldn't take a pay cut either since her character was a vital love interest in the series.
I think they just got them together too soon when they should have held on to the last season of house so that they can end up together then. Also, what good was doing time? He still is addicted to pain killers. They brought in the little Filipino Girl and that new hot Doctor from the jail.
Her I get but the munchkin? I think they are training her to be like house but without the attitude. And already, House is using her for all his bidding. He just tricked the newbie to pay for his car repair. I don't know how much more interesting can the show be?
I'm also very tired of the Foreman character. First of all, he walks like he has House's cane up his ass while still having a hanger in his jacket. I don't like the actor "Epps" and I don't like the way he portrays the character. They should have gotten rid of him instead of Cuddy.
I'm thinking this will be the last season unless much more interesting characters come in and challenge House. He's a dick but I think he needs to be humbled more. He needs to suffer and empathize with people as well as learn from his friends. It should go out with a bang!!
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Saturday, October 15, 2011
Feeling Better
Well, I am going to try, every once in a while to check in. It's hard for me because I usually have something important to say. At least, important enough for me. Well, after many months of therapy, I've been feeling better. Little by little I am learning to "Let it go".
It's not forgiveness mind you but rather a state of mind where I don't mind anymore. I have to learn that even though I am following the golden rule, I can't control other peoples actions or feelings. God has a plan for me and I believe he has put it in motion.
I blame facebook for my situation but it turns out that facebook will correct the problem. I have met many wonderful new friends on facebook and at a minimum I'm having a good time with them. Nothing major or even minor for that matter in regards to a relationship, but at least I am me.
I've changed my attitude to where I don't care about how others feel about me or if I say something that will hurt their feelings. I have to say what I want to say and that's that. If I hurt your feelings, well, too fucking bad. If you are truly my friend, you will understand that I really don't mean anything I say anyway.
On that subject, I truly believe that a TRUE friend will argue with you and fight with you but will always love you unconditionally. I have a friend who I've noticed that I've gotten soooo mad that she has to hang up on the conversation before she curses me out. We all have opinions and if yours is not like mine, well, let's "Agree to Disagree". That helps all the time.
We cannot dwell on the past because that's when the mud from the past clings to our shoes preventing us to take a step forward. To my old friends, whom I love very much and value our friendships, thank you for being there thru all my bullshit.
To my new friends, prepare, but remember, I will be there for you as much as you are there for me. To my new "Friends", I would like to get to know you better. you know who you are! Anyway, this is my entry for today. I am writing again so I must go, The play will be done soon! Love ya!
Ken
It's not forgiveness mind you but rather a state of mind where I don't mind anymore. I have to learn that even though I am following the golden rule, I can't control other peoples actions or feelings. God has a plan for me and I believe he has put it in motion.
I blame facebook for my situation but it turns out that facebook will correct the problem. I have met many wonderful new friends on facebook and at a minimum I'm having a good time with them. Nothing major or even minor for that matter in regards to a relationship, but at least I am me.
I've changed my attitude to where I don't care about how others feel about me or if I say something that will hurt their feelings. I have to say what I want to say and that's that. If I hurt your feelings, well, too fucking bad. If you are truly my friend, you will understand that I really don't mean anything I say anyway.
On that subject, I truly believe that a TRUE friend will argue with you and fight with you but will always love you unconditionally. I have a friend who I've noticed that I've gotten soooo mad that she has to hang up on the conversation before she curses me out. We all have opinions and if yours is not like mine, well, let's "Agree to Disagree". That helps all the time.
We cannot dwell on the past because that's when the mud from the past clings to our shoes preventing us to take a step forward. To my old friends, whom I love very much and value our friendships, thank you for being there thru all my bullshit.
To my new friends, prepare, but remember, I will be there for you as much as you are there for me. To my new "Friends", I would like to get to know you better. you know who you are! Anyway, this is my entry for today. I am writing again so I must go, The play will be done soon! Love ya!
Ken
Thursday, October 6, 2011
McDonald's again?
Well, it's been a while since I posted but I think it is time once again. So, I drop off my daughter at her school in a cab and decide to go get McDonald's for breakfast. I like their breakfast. The moment I walked in I realized that it was going to be a while because there was a long line at the counter.
As I was waiting my turn, a young white woman walked up to the counter and asked if she can use the bathroom. It was obvious that she was on her way to work but had to stop for a second. As she approached the counter, she just happened to catch the manager at the register.
She wasn't a vagabond or a homeless person. She asked the manager if she can use the bathroom and the manager seemed to ignore her. Finally the manager said that she could not use the bathroom unless she purchased something. The young lady began to explain that she is a neighbor and that she purchases a lot from there but that she had to use the bathroom.
The manager still said no. When asked if she was the manager, the Manager didn't respond. She knew where it was going. Finally, after multiple attempts to find what the managers name was, the manager looked at her and said, "Theresa". The young lady said "Thank You, have a nice day!" She walked out.
After all this happened, it was finally my turn at the counter. I had a feeling something wrong was going to happen so I prepared myself mentally for it. A young Spanish girl, who seemed to be a lesbian with a chip on her shoulder, took my order. Personally, I don't care what you are, just treat me with the same respect that I am treating you with.
Anyway, I approach the counter, make my order, pay the order and move away from the counter as to not say or stir up any reason for them to get nasty with me. She then takes the next order and fills it before mine. I let that go because there was still a little tension in the air.
She began packaging my order and I watch carefully. As she was doing it, she was conversing with the manager about the whole situation. In my experience with McDonald's employees, if they don't concentrate on the order at hand, the fuck it up. Always happens.
On the other side of the counter, I waited and she gave me my order. i asked her if she can "double-check" my order so that I don't have to come back. She looked at me with contempt, grabbed the bag within the bag, pulled it out and briefly looked in. I asked is there a problem with double-checking? She said that she already had read the order to me.
I said I know that but you read it over there on the other side of the counter before you packaged it. Again, Is there a problem in double-checking the order? She said that it wasn't her job to double-check that it was mine. I stepped back, looked at her then looked at the manager who was standing right next to us the whole time this was going on.
I wanted to get into this discussion, on a very professional level, but the counter person cut the conversation short and walked away from me. I turned to the manager again and looked at her as if to say "And you're not going to do anything?". She just smiled. I walked out.
This is the McDonald's on 6th street and first avenue. I've had problems with the one on 14th st and first and the one on Madison st. I've gotten people fired for bullshit like this. This time was no exception. i called the appropriate people and lets just say that it won't be happening again and I'm getting free sandwiches and desserts to boot.
I hope you enjoyed the story. You're more than welcome to say anything you want! LOL Fun times I swear! Love ya!
As I was waiting my turn, a young white woman walked up to the counter and asked if she can use the bathroom. It was obvious that she was on her way to work but had to stop for a second. As she approached the counter, she just happened to catch the manager at the register.
She wasn't a vagabond or a homeless person. She asked the manager if she can use the bathroom and the manager seemed to ignore her. Finally the manager said that she could not use the bathroom unless she purchased something. The young lady began to explain that she is a neighbor and that she purchases a lot from there but that she had to use the bathroom.
The manager still said no. When asked if she was the manager, the Manager didn't respond. She knew where it was going. Finally, after multiple attempts to find what the managers name was, the manager looked at her and said, "Theresa". The young lady said "Thank You, have a nice day!" She walked out.
After all this happened, it was finally my turn at the counter. I had a feeling something wrong was going to happen so I prepared myself mentally for it. A young Spanish girl, who seemed to be a lesbian with a chip on her shoulder, took my order. Personally, I don't care what you are, just treat me with the same respect that I am treating you with.
Anyway, I approach the counter, make my order, pay the order and move away from the counter as to not say or stir up any reason for them to get nasty with me. She then takes the next order and fills it before mine. I let that go because there was still a little tension in the air.
She began packaging my order and I watch carefully. As she was doing it, she was conversing with the manager about the whole situation. In my experience with McDonald's employees, if they don't concentrate on the order at hand, the fuck it up. Always happens.
On the other side of the counter, I waited and she gave me my order. i asked her if she can "double-check" my order so that I don't have to come back. She looked at me with contempt, grabbed the bag within the bag, pulled it out and briefly looked in. I asked is there a problem with double-checking? She said that she already had read the order to me.
I said I know that but you read it over there on the other side of the counter before you packaged it. Again, Is there a problem in double-checking the order? She said that it wasn't her job to double-check that it was mine. I stepped back, looked at her then looked at the manager who was standing right next to us the whole time this was going on.
I wanted to get into this discussion, on a very professional level, but the counter person cut the conversation short and walked away from me. I turned to the manager again and looked at her as if to say "And you're not going to do anything?". She just smiled. I walked out.
This is the McDonald's on 6th street and first avenue. I've had problems with the one on 14th st and first and the one on Madison st. I've gotten people fired for bullshit like this. This time was no exception. i called the appropriate people and lets just say that it won't be happening again and I'm getting free sandwiches and desserts to boot.
I hope you enjoyed the story. You're more than welcome to say anything you want! LOL Fun times I swear! Love ya!
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Outsourcing Petition.
Hey Everybody! The other day, in fact, the day of the earthquake, I was going to a meeting and I noticed that the meeting place was by Congresswoman Nydia M. Velasquez's office. The funny thing about this is that the only song that came to my mind was from the Saturday morning educational cartoons Schoolhouse rock's "I'm only a bill".
I've been teaching my daughter that if she has problem with a business or anything for that matter that she feels is unjust, she could do something about it. For instance, We had a terrible time at the movie theatre so we complained about our experience at the theatre and we were given 6 free movie vouchers for our discomfort.
We had a problem at a few McDonalds regarding their McFlurry machines and a few attitudes behind the counter and we complained. They sent us a couple of coupons for free ice cream and coffee drinks. Then they fixed the problem. I'm explaining all this because I know that if you know what you are doing, one persons opinion can change anything.
In following what I had learned from the cartoon, I know that a law has to begin with a bill proposed by a congressperson. Well, I took my daughter in to the office and explained that I am a constituent and that I've written many letters but nothing has even been acknowledged.
They gave me a new e-mail to send it and it will be reviewed. I would love for those that read the following to comment as much as they want and pass the word so that our Congresswoman can see we are tired of the Bullshit.
I've always believed that charity begins at home. If we can't support ourselves, why would we support others. Outsourcing has become such an American Tradition that over 50% of American base companies are hiring others outside because the hourly rates are cheaper.
When we do this, we show our own family that we don't care about each other. The unemployment rate rises with no hope of diminishing because everyone else outside the USA has our jobs. What I don't understand is that if we are the main consumers of a product/service here, why not hire within?
I know that the rates are cheaper let's say like in India but I'm pretty sure the government can grant, if they haven't already, special tax breaks for companies that employ Americans. No offense to their countries but I'm getting tired of talking to people that call themselves Meg when in reality their name is Indira.
That's beginning a conversation with a lie. How much confidence do I now have with a woman that lied to me already. I'm writing a letter to my congresswoman and attaching this link to the letter. I want her to see that we actually do care and we will do anything it takes to make a law that prohibits outsourcing for companies that are either based in America or has Americans buying/using the majority of their products.
If you feel that outsourcing is wrong, please comment and leave your name even if you have to use the anonymous function. Let Ms. Velasquez know that we are American Citizens and we need jobs.
Thank You.
I've been teaching my daughter that if she has problem with a business or anything for that matter that she feels is unjust, she could do something about it. For instance, We had a terrible time at the movie theatre so we complained about our experience at the theatre and we were given 6 free movie vouchers for our discomfort.
We had a problem at a few McDonalds regarding their McFlurry machines and a few attitudes behind the counter and we complained. They sent us a couple of coupons for free ice cream and coffee drinks. Then they fixed the problem. I'm explaining all this because I know that if you know what you are doing, one persons opinion can change anything.
In following what I had learned from the cartoon, I know that a law has to begin with a bill proposed by a congressperson. Well, I took my daughter in to the office and explained that I am a constituent and that I've written many letters but nothing has even been acknowledged.
They gave me a new e-mail to send it and it will be reviewed. I would love for those that read the following to comment as much as they want and pass the word so that our Congresswoman can see we are tired of the Bullshit.
I've always believed that charity begins at home. If we can't support ourselves, why would we support others. Outsourcing has become such an American Tradition that over 50% of American base companies are hiring others outside because the hourly rates are cheaper.
When we do this, we show our own family that we don't care about each other. The unemployment rate rises with no hope of diminishing because everyone else outside the USA has our jobs. What I don't understand is that if we are the main consumers of a product/service here, why not hire within?
I know that the rates are cheaper let's say like in India but I'm pretty sure the government can grant, if they haven't already, special tax breaks for companies that employ Americans. No offense to their countries but I'm getting tired of talking to people that call themselves Meg when in reality their name is Indira.
That's beginning a conversation with a lie. How much confidence do I now have with a woman that lied to me already. I'm writing a letter to my congresswoman and attaching this link to the letter. I want her to see that we actually do care and we will do anything it takes to make a law that prohibits outsourcing for companies that are either based in America or has Americans buying/using the majority of their products.
If you feel that outsourcing is wrong, please comment and leave your name even if you have to use the anonymous function. Let Ms. Velasquez know that we are American Citizens and we need jobs.
Thank You.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Getting Over
I've got to say, I think I've been feeling a little better about things. I'm not missing that person at all. Although things have gotten tough here and there, I know God has paved a new road for me and I will achieve some sort of joy and happiness in my life.
The lesson I learned about my situation is that I can't control any one's action except my own. i know, i know, I should have known that from the start but I felt like I knew what i was doing. When in a relationship, after a while it becomes symbiotic.
A life where one has a hard time surviving if the other isn't attached. It makes you a bigger person once the other becomes a leech and starts to drain the life out of you. Doing stupid things that are both disloyal and disrespectful.
I've been told by some of my closest friends/family to "Snap out of it!" My usual response was "It's easier said than done." I know most of you can relate to this but I couldn't. It was harder than it looks. I've been blessed. The storm has completely passed me and I'm looking forward to just being me again.
During the last 5 years, I have lost friend, friendships and a good amount of trust. Although I feel I had nothing to do with the reasons for my losses, I will take responsibility, if any. I could have been nicer, could have gone out more, could have let people vent etc.....
The coulda, shoulda, wouldas are in the past and I really don't want to deal with them now. What I'm basically saying people is that, I've grown since all this has happened, I may revert a bit every once in a while but I think that I have every right do do that.
To all that read this, Please have faith that I will be better and I thank all of you that were there when I needed you the most. Even in the smallest of ways. That smile that you made me do for telling that stupid joke or even that response to a comment I made. I know you are there.
To those that like to INFLICT there "Tough Love" on me. Well, you obviously know that I need it and are not afraid to accept my responses to them as well. Thank you.
The lesson I learned about my situation is that I can't control any one's action except my own. i know, i know, I should have known that from the start but I felt like I knew what i was doing. When in a relationship, after a while it becomes symbiotic.
A life where one has a hard time surviving if the other isn't attached. It makes you a bigger person once the other becomes a leech and starts to drain the life out of you. Doing stupid things that are both disloyal and disrespectful.
I've been told by some of my closest friends/family to "Snap out of it!" My usual response was "It's easier said than done." I know most of you can relate to this but I couldn't. It was harder than it looks. I've been blessed. The storm has completely passed me and I'm looking forward to just being me again.
During the last 5 years, I have lost friend, friendships and a good amount of trust. Although I feel I had nothing to do with the reasons for my losses, I will take responsibility, if any. I could have been nicer, could have gone out more, could have let people vent etc.....
The coulda, shoulda, wouldas are in the past and I really don't want to deal with them now. What I'm basically saying people is that, I've grown since all this has happened, I may revert a bit every once in a while but I think that I have every right do do that.
To all that read this, Please have faith that I will be better and I thank all of you that were there when I needed you the most. Even in the smallest of ways. That smile that you made me do for telling that stupid joke or even that response to a comment I made. I know you are there.
To those that like to INFLICT there "Tough Love" on me. Well, you obviously know that I need it and are not afraid to accept my responses to them as well. Thank you.
Thursday, August 18, 2011
My court date
It's been a while since I posted a blog. This is more for me to have as a record. On august 17th, 2011,
I had a date in court. It was to determine, by the judge, an order of visitation for the kids to visit Texas for two weeks with their mother.
Prior to the court date, my children were interviewed by each individuals lawyers to express what they are feeling about the case and what they want as an outcome. Without prvocation, my children express to me that they didn't want to go to Texas, more so that they didn't want to meet their mothers boyfriend.
I go to court with the anticipation that everything will be fine and that te Judge will not send them to Texas because the children refuse to go. When I get there to my surprise my, hopefully soon-to-be ex-wife, is there with her boyfriend. Having been caught off guard, it REALLY upset me.
I sat down to wait to report in and I sent her a text message. "That is distastefully disrespectful. I would have NEVER done that to you, Thank you". She had nothing to say. Honestly, I've been told that since it bothered me so much, I must still have feelings for her.
Well, I have news for you guys that said that. She is still my wife and we just got seperated from a 16 year marriage. She is the mother of my children and we have many wonderful memories together. The WHOLE marriage wasn't bad. It was just the last few years.
So, OF COURSE! I still love her. It doesn't mean I want her back andrekindle what we have. It just means that at one point in our lives we took care of each other and the family! Anyway, I'm getting off track. The news that the judge didn't come in to work came and I got happy.
This means that the kids are staying in NY. After the news, I asked her from a distance if I can speak to her. Her lawyer saw that and immediately came to represent her. My lawyer never showed up by the way. He wasn't supposed to talk to me.
They asked me that since she was only in NY one day, can she visit with the kids. I was upset. I explained that what she did was disrespectful and in the midst of aggresive lawyering, I told HER that I would let her know. I spoke to my brother and he convinced me that its for the kids.
I called her back and told her that she can pick up the kids at 2 and have them back by 6pm. The only condition was that she follow what her lawyer suggested and have her boyfriend not with her when she is with the kids. After talking to the kids, they were happy about not going to Texas but still didn't want to meet him.
She agreed and picked them up. She came back an hour late and the kids told me he showed up and their mother made them promise that they don't tell me that he did, My daughter was very upset and crying when she got home. My son was angry because he was forced to meet him when he didn't want to.
I know this long. I'm very upset for my kids. I still wonder what was it that I did in my lifetime to be disrespected and abused the way this woman has been doing. There are a few of you that side with her. that's fine. Everyone is entitled to there own opinion. I just wish that you can walk a mile in my shoes before coming up with one.
I had a date in court. It was to determine, by the judge, an order of visitation for the kids to visit Texas for two weeks with their mother.
Prior to the court date, my children were interviewed by each individuals lawyers to express what they are feeling about the case and what they want as an outcome. Without prvocation, my children express to me that they didn't want to go to Texas, more so that they didn't want to meet their mothers boyfriend.
I go to court with the anticipation that everything will be fine and that te Judge will not send them to Texas because the children refuse to go. When I get there to my surprise my, hopefully soon-to-be ex-wife, is there with her boyfriend. Having been caught off guard, it REALLY upset me.
I sat down to wait to report in and I sent her a text message. "That is distastefully disrespectful. I would have NEVER done that to you, Thank you". She had nothing to say. Honestly, I've been told that since it bothered me so much, I must still have feelings for her.
Well, I have news for you guys that said that. She is still my wife and we just got seperated from a 16 year marriage. She is the mother of my children and we have many wonderful memories together. The WHOLE marriage wasn't bad. It was just the last few years.
So, OF COURSE! I still love her. It doesn't mean I want her back andrekindle what we have. It just means that at one point in our lives we took care of each other and the family! Anyway, I'm getting off track. The news that the judge didn't come in to work came and I got happy.
This means that the kids are staying in NY. After the news, I asked her from a distance if I can speak to her. Her lawyer saw that and immediately came to represent her. My lawyer never showed up by the way. He wasn't supposed to talk to me.
They asked me that since she was only in NY one day, can she visit with the kids. I was upset. I explained that what she did was disrespectful and in the midst of aggresive lawyering, I told HER that I would let her know. I spoke to my brother and he convinced me that its for the kids.
I called her back and told her that she can pick up the kids at 2 and have them back by 6pm. The only condition was that she follow what her lawyer suggested and have her boyfriend not with her when she is with the kids. After talking to the kids, they were happy about not going to Texas but still didn't want to meet him.
She agreed and picked them up. She came back an hour late and the kids told me he showed up and their mother made them promise that they don't tell me that he did, My daughter was very upset and crying when she got home. My son was angry because he was forced to meet him when he didn't want to.
I know this long. I'm very upset for my kids. I still wonder what was it that I did in my lifetime to be disrespected and abused the way this woman has been doing. There are a few of you that side with her. that's fine. Everyone is entitled to there own opinion. I just wish that you can walk a mile in my shoes before coming up with one.
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